Promiscuous

Promiscuous Domination and submission...

Promiscuity

Indiscriminate or casual. Unrestrained sexual behavior. Of little concern or random.

Within a 'casual' relationship, there is seldom an investment of concern. Sex becomes a random coupling for momentary pleasure without any regard or allusion toward future commitment or a deeper relationship. When a thing becomes 'common,' its innate value diminishes. For 'sex' or 'scening' to be a meaningful experience, there must be an investment or belief in its intrinsic value.

When sex/scening is offered or given casually, the viewpoint of the receiver is to view the giver as casual or common. There is an old saying, easy to get, easy to forget. If a submissive can be taken with ease, they are probably not worth keeping! If the participants have no desire for anything more than an occasional random coupling, then a casual or common regard for their partner is satisfactory.

From a Dominant's perspective, if a submissive thrusts an offering of 'everything' at any potential Dominant partner almost from the moment of contact, then that Dominant will often 'see' this offering to be of little value or consequence, or may view the submissive to be without depth of character. If a submissive will submit to any Dominant that wanders into their range, then that offering becomes casual or common or without special meaning.

There is a subtle excitement to winning or conquering the discriminating affections of another human being. The revealment of personal strength, character, intellect, veracity, loyalty, charisma, and honesty sufficient to enable a submissive to carefully and with intense discrimination select a Dominant as 'special' excites. Every human wants and needs to feel somehow unique and special to the people who are close to them in their lives.

For a Dominant to win or attain the affections of a submissive of character, the Dominant must devote time, energy, effort, and concern in the pursuit of that attainment.

It is important for both the Dominant and the submissive to carefully examine their extended needs and desires. If they wish to engage only in casual or short-term encounters, then an open or indiscriminate involvement with others may be exactly what they desire. If, however, they are seeking a longer-term or fully bonded relationship with 'special' overtones and deeper meanings, then they should probably not choose to scene casually. Reputations are built on the actions of the people within the community. An attitude of promiscuous submission or domination reduces the veracity by which that submissive or Dominant is viewed by others.

Within a 'relationship', wide sexual variety may be an intrinsic part of the relationship dynamics; this is quite different from being casually submissive or casually dominant within the entirety of the community itself.

If you value yourself first, others will then find value in you.

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