Requirements

Requirements of Service

(This list is for the potential sub/slave desiring to enter into full service to me. It includes play potentials that the sub/slave should believe themselves capable of handling. There is a margin of level within each area, but the areas themselves are inviolate to me. Please read them carefully and think about these things deeply before deciding whether you believe you can meet them. It is not my desire to waste my time nor yours!)

I require my sub/slaves to be in good physical, mental, and spiritual health. They must have an active life outside the BDSM world and maintain friendships and family relationships well. They are required to be open, honest, genuine, truthful, courteous, respectful, courageous, kind, loving, have a good sense of humor, a good sense of humility, and a strong desire and willingness to serve and give of themselves. They must possess the ability to focus entirely on one person and feel a compelling desire to meet or exceed directions given to them.

I have no desire to be in a conflictive relationship or engage in training a combative or rebellious submissive. Know your mind, heart, and desire, and offer to me a willingness to voluntarily serve me. Failure to follow directions in my service will be just cause for immediate dismissal!

I require complete devotion from my slaves. I am quite particular and consider the individual carefully prior to selecting them for service. I take my submissives as slaves. This is total and willful service to me. Once taken, I do not negotiate terms, limits, or boundaries. Below is a listing of the range of play the slave may expect to be confronted with at any given time.

BISEXUALITY

My submissive slaves should be prepared to engage in scenes or relationships with either sex under my direction. Individual relationships are kept private, but an open and uninhibited nature is my preference.

EDGE PLAY

My submissive/slaves will expect to have their limits challenged, stretched, and extended.

DUNGEON PLAY

• The Rack
• The St. Andrews Cross
• The Stocks
• The Whipping Post
• The Flogging Horse
• The Sling
• Suspension Play
• Table Play
• Caging

TOYS:

• Wax
• Ice
• Clamps (Nipples, Tongue, Cock, Balls, Labia, Clit, Clotheslines, Zippers, between fingers in webbing, etc.)
• Shaving (total pubic shaving)
• Leather cuffs
• Leather training collar
• Stretchers
• Thigh cuffs
• Rope Bondage
• Mummification
• Latex
• Posture cuffs
• Harnessing
• Pony gear
• Chastity gear
• Gags
• Pumps
• Nipple kits
• Anal play
• Golden showers (urine play)
• Enema's (brown showers - potential future scat)
• Air reduction play
• Electrical play (violet wand or tens unit)
• Dildo play (double dildo play)
• Puppy training
• Humiliation training
• Butt plugs for potty training
• Medical play

DISCIPLINE:

• Floggers
• Speed Whip
• Crops
• Slappers
• Paddles
• Spankings
• Caning
• Ticklers
• Mitts
• Nail Extenders
• Parachutes
• Full CBT with weights
• Stretchers

This gives you an idea of the potential range of play. You should also be aware that you might be asked to attend events, parties, or club meetings naked, collared, cuffed, and leashed. There could be occasions where you are invited to participate in an auction sale during fundraising events. You might be expected to serve at tea parties. Collaboration with other sub/slaves serving me may be part of the experience. I will introduce you to complete command protocols, and guidance will be provided to help you follow them. At times, you might be asked to eat from a dog food bowl on the floor and sleep in a dog kennel, if that's my preference. You should anticipate being naked and bound each night in a location of my choosing (such as on a mat at the foot of the bed).

It is common for a sub/slave to experience a natural evolution over time, where some conditions may change, and new desires to play in different ways might emerge. Such changes can occur and may vary with time, exposure to new things, and advances in technology.

I am a loving Domme, with a strong will, creative heart, and strict though sensual ideas. I am considered to be fairly new to the scene and quite interested in exploring to find my limits as well as those of my sub/slaves. You are permitted to ask me direct questions about anything on the list, as well as provide me with an idea of your internal desires, any fetishes you may have, or fantasies you cannot escape from.

(This Requirement of Service was created to be used as a potential starting point for a new Domme to reflect their BDSM interests or possible interests when initiating an interview with a potential submissive/slave. Please note: You should alter it to suit your particular interests and ideas, and understand that every individual is unique and different.)

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