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By Robert | 2:42 PM EDT, Tue April 14, 2026

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Art of Allure

Allure: The power of attraction or fascination....

Allure is the projection of erotic or sensual energy from one human being to another. The art of the 'Lure' is the desire to entice, tempt, seduce, or attract by suggesting or hinting at possible pleasure or gain. Allure is an active state or a deliberate action.

The Dominant and submissive are adapted to the projection of charm both as a weapon and as a tool to 'encourage' other people into 'following' their subtle direction. If you place a need or a goal within attainable reach, the Dominant or submissive will or may use allure as part of their arsenal toward the attainment of that goal or fulfillment of that need.

Between a Dominant and a submissive, this unique mutation or adaptation presents some interesting ideas. One of the most intriguing of these is simple identification. It appears that one 'projecting' individual awakens the 'awareness' of any other 'projecting' individual within their range. Between many Dominants and submissives is the capacity for 'participation' in another person's ideas or feelings. This is called empathy or an empathic ability. This capacity is possessed by most people and can be found in active usage at times of crisis, such as in the projection of 'sympathy' at or toward an individual.

This directed or projected energy tends to be highly focused and delivered or pushed by intense will or desire. These projected emanations elicit an awareness response which alerts the attention of any other Dominant or submissive within the sphere or range of them. This mutation or evolutionary trait may have developed as part of the 'package' of survival and mating or reproductive suitability.

During a 'stressed' situation, it is often the supreme desire of the submissive to survive. By 'aligning' with a Dominant, that survivability factor increases. As part of this, the submissive wants to 'draw' the attention of the Dominant upon them and entice that Dominant into 'taking' that submissive within their protective territory. To achieve this 'goal', the submissive manifests a state of 'appeal' or 'seduction'. Often this can be blatant sexual enticement, which, when viewed, may appear to be the 'opening' of the body to 'invite' the Dominant within. Some of these more blatant manifestations are discussed in the article titled 'Manifestations'.

Sex is perhaps the most powerful tool available. It plays into the natural or primal side of man with its underlying species pressure of reproduction or species survival. This is a vibrant force which we tend to mask in 'civilized' society with language of choice, appropriate behavior, and rhetoric to suggest that this 'force' has diminished or fallen into the direct control of humanity.

Allure strongly projected can 'enthrall' its 'victim' into a state of fixated attention. Once 'caught', the victim of this enthrallment will be maintained in a 'diminished state' while the projector 'suggests' a line of action that is desirable to them. It is important to recognize that this projection can emanate from either the Dominant or the submissive, based on a decision by the individual that such a projection might be useful or successful. A strong submissive 'actively' takes weaker or latent Dominants as part of their normal behavior. This is done by 'encouraging' the Dominant to do something by 'enticing' the Dominant into a sexual 'space'. This is the 'suggestion' of possible mating. It should be noted that few submissives will actually follow through on this enticement. If a submissive can 'take' a Dominant, they instinctively 'know' that this Dominant is 'weaker' than they are, which essentially means that they would produce inferior offspring. So, they use their capacity for allure to manipulate or direct action beneficial to themselves.

Since the world is full of latent or non-emergent Dominants and submissives, this allows a strong Dominant or submissive a powerful way to manipulate or control while maintaining the appearance of 'non-threat'. A projecting Dominant or submissive couples within that projection a belief in availability, possibly loose morals, diminished intellect, and especially non-threat! The recipient of this 'projection' will consider that Dominant or submissive to be 'safe' and will often lower their mental defenses and literally 'invite' the Dominant or submissive inside of them.

Once close the projector will 'align' with the need or apparent desire of their 'victim'. This empathy, or the strong ability to empathetically align, is part of the mating courtship between Dominants and submissives. In general, the stronger that a Dominant or submissive is, the stronger this ability is. As with many things, empathy, blended energy streams, or shared 'space' is strengthened by usage. The more you reach mentally, the stronger that ability will grow.

If a submissive is 'projecting' and comes within the range of a strong Dominant, that Dominant will 'feel' them or 'see' them. Many Dominants and submissives report that they routinely 'identify' Dominants or submissives whom they come into contact with during their normal routines. Often, they cannot express 'how' they know that a person is one or the other; they simply know.

If a Dominant or submissive becomes aware of allure as a functional and successful tool, they often begin to use this tool to advance their careers. A projecting Dominant or submissive may 'appear' to be the most 'attractive' individual in a room full of people when, in physical reality, they may be nothing more than 'plain' by conventional measures or standards. The 'glamoree' of the projection masks or alters how anyone within range will 'view' them.

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