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Group 3: Sadism & Masochism Checklist

Webform Specifications

08 December 2025

Introduction: Use the checklist below to learn more about sadism & masochism (S&M) activities and equipment and see which appeal to you.

The results of your selections will be emailed to you so that you can keep them on record to compare notes with your partner.

Instructions: Below you will find a comprehensive list of S&M activities and equipment, ranging from the common to the bizarre.

Spend time looking at each of the S&M elements listed below, selecting those that appeal to you, and rating them according to the dropdowns. If you feel neutral about an activity or piece of equipment, simply leave all three dropdown fields blank. You need only select dropdowns on the S&M elements you feel strongly for or against.

Example: Abrasion: Having the skin scraped, scratched or abraded, using a variety of implements, ranging from exfoliating sponges to sandpaper. I am into Abrasion. Abrasion is something I am willing to do. I am into receiving Abrasion. [Mark Green]

Your Email Address(*): [em 1]
Your Partner's Email Address: [em 2]
Your primary role is: [role 1] Optional
Your Partner's primary role is: [role 2] Optional
Drop Down 1 (role 1 and role 2) Optional

• Top, Master, Mistress, Sir, Madam, Coach, Patriarch, Dom / Dominate, Dominatrix, Owner, Boss, Dad (Daddy), Bear, Teacher, Trainer, Handler, and Otter.
• Bottom, submissive, slave, sub, property, boy, subordinate, son, bear cub, athlete, student, and human-animal (i.e., human-canine, human-equine, human-feline, otter pup, and whelp).

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Drop Down 2

• I am into xxx
  • mark green
• I am strongly against xxx
  • mark red

Drop Down 3

0. xxx is something I'll never do; it is a hard limit for me
   • Mandatory option when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
1. xxx is something I'll do under strict orders
2. xxx is something I'll do under orders
3. xxx is something I am willing to do
4. xxx is something I really want to do
5. xxx is something I cannot live without; it is a requirement for me

Drop Down 4

• Mandatory to omit when "I am strongly against xxx” is selected
• I am into giving xxx
• I am into receiving xxx
• I am into both giving and receiving xxx

Interests

S&M; Activies

1. Abrasion: Having the skin scraped, scratched or abraded, using a variety of implements, ranging from exfoliating sponges to sandpaper.
2. Anal Dilation: Deliberate stretching of the anal sphincter, forcing it as wide open as it can go.
3. Anal Fisting: A sexual penetration activity to fit the entire hand inside the anus.
4. Asphyxiation or Breath Play: Activities that restrict the flow of oxygen or air to the lungs or brain, often by means of choking.
5. Bastinado: Activities designed to torture the soles of the feet, most often caning.
6. Beating: Activities involving hard or soft beatings with the hands or other tools applied to specific focus areas, such as the face, genitals, or back, or the person in general.
7. Biting: Being bitten or biting as a mechanism for pain.
8. Breast Torture: Activities designed to torture, hurt, and otherwise manipulate the breasts by means of milking, stretching, pain implements, whipping, caning, and more.
9. Electricity: The application of non-fatal electric shocks to create sensations of pleasure or pain. 
   
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10. Face Slapping: The act of slapping another in the face to cause pain or denote a superior position.
11. Fire Play: Activities involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by the use of fire, heat, and live flames.
12. Hair Pulling: Acts involving the sensations caused by pulling, tugging, and yanking on the hair, gently or with force.
13. Pinching: Activities resulting in the sensations and apprehensions experienced when part of the skin is pinched between fingers or an implement.
14. Scarification: Activities designed to deliberately cause scarring of the skin, often through cutting or branding.
15. Scratching: Activities resulting in the apprehensions and sensations caused by scratching the skin, either with the nails or with another item of equipment.
16. Spanking: Activities in which a part of the body is spanked with the palm of the hand, most often the buttocks. Spanking activities can be further segregated into on all fours or over the knee (OTK). Spanking activities may include the use of implements, and this is collectively known as impact play. Spanking is most commonly done on the Gluteus maximus (butt), but can also be on the upper thighs (both front and back).
17. Vaginal Dilation: Activities designed to stretch the vaginal opening as wide as possible, often using a speculum or similar device.
18. Vaginal Fisting: A sexual penetration activity where the purpose is to place the entire hand inside the vagina for stimulation.
    
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19. Belts & Straps: The use of mostly leather belts and straps for the purpose of inflicting pain through beating.
20. Caning: Activities in which a long thin piece of wood, plastic or other materials, known as a cane, is used to inflict sharp, painful blows, mainly to the fleshy part of the buttocks.
21. Clothes Pins, UK Clothes Pegs or simply Peg: Having clothespins applied to various parts of the body and left for periods, or removed quickly. See also zipper
22. Cupping & Suction: Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by placing suction cups on various parts of the body.
23. Cutting: Activities inducing sensations and apprehensions in the body by means of cutting the flesh.
24. Electricity TENS Units & Violet Wands: Electrosex is a practice involving the application of electrical stimuli to parts of the body, with particular reference to the genitals, using a TENS, EMS, Violet Wand or similar made-for-purpose electrical play unit.
25. Flogging: An impact activity in which a partner is usually sensually beaten by a flogger, an implement that looks similar to the traditional whip, but usually has significantly more tails. Floggers can be made from a variety of materials, from suede to plastic, horsehair and even chain.
26. Hairbrushes: Activities involving the sensations and apprehensions experienced by utilizing a hairbrush as a device to create pleasurable sensations, or as a tool for impact activities, like beatings and spankings.
27. Hot Oil: Activities involving the sensations and apprehensions created by applying hot oil onto the body.
    
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28. Ice Play: The sensations and apprehensions caused when applying ice and other cold materials onto or into the body.
29. Figging: Inserting raw ginger pieces into the vagina or anus.
30. Clips, Clamps, Clothes Pins & Weights: Clips, clamps & clothes pins usually designed to be affixed to the nipples, genitals, and the loose skin along the rib cage. Weights may be added to stretch nipples and breasts, labia or the scrotum.
31. Needles: Acts involving the sensations and apprehensions caused by using needles on the body, either scratching with them, or using them to create elaborate designs and patterns.
32. Paddling: An impact play activity in which a partner is struck or beaten with a paddle: a longish, flat, usually wooden implement.
33. Piercing: Acts involving the sensations aroused by temporarily or permanently piercing a body part.
34. Riding Crops: Acts of impact play where a partner is struck or beaten with a riding crop, as used by horse riders to spur their horses on.
35. Urethral Sounds: Elongated, usually metal implements, used to explore body cavities, most often inserted into the urethra.
36. Whipping: An impact play activity in which partners are struck or beaten using various styles of whips, from bullwhips to stock whips, knotted whips and Cat o' Nine Tails. Whipping is often focused on the upper back, buttocks, genitals and feet.

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